Every lady’s target is to end up with Mr. Right but what is the use of getting the perfect One and later on letting him loose for the wolves to bite. Before marriage; precious moments are spent, treasured memories are created and the love blossoms. After marriage, especially when the woman has a kid or two, she stops taking care of herself, the lingerie transforms to wrappers and the men concentrate more on their work than their wives.
Most relationship becomes tedious and irksome, it takes forever to spend quality time together and the man starts cheating. All this problems can be avoided; the love doesn’t easily fade off. Here are five secrets to keeping the romance alive in a marriage.
Always look elegant
A man likes a woman that looks good and smells good; a presentable and exquisite lady with class. A man always wants to see his wife looking sexy, starting from her underwear to her outfits. She should be able to take proper care of her body and shape. Regular exercise is advised for all women. Nothing should change your beauty routine; kids are no excuses to live wayward life. A woman can wear her husband’s t-shirt, enticing costumes or lingerie to create to get an irresistible look at night.
Alone time can take a long time so ladies, You can send the kids to a family relative’s house, tidy up your home, cook his favorite dish, turn on some candles and cool music, put on a lovely dress and wait for him to get home. Moments like that sticks to the mind of your beloved.
Be crazy with your spouse
Foreplay is very important in marriages and communication is the key to achieving that. Sharing an intimate moment with your spouse is something that requires practice; most times you need to go beyond complaining, you should teach him how best you like your foreplay done to you. This makes it easier and fun for both of you. Try new things at different places in your home. This type of pleasure should be enjoyed by both partners but make sure you put the kids into consideration while doing this. Marriage is meant to be forever, put your shyness away and use this trick to add vibe to your relationship.
Make your spouse your best friend
Compliment your spouse, talk to him about everything and anything. Play his favorite games, ask him to kiss you before he can watch his favorite channel, admire things together, drop notes in his car and text him to let him know how much you love and miss him. Try to pick some favorite songs you enjoy listening to with your spouse, play with him in public and show the world how much you love him.
Be a shoulder he can cry on
In every good times comes bad, nothing lasts forever. Always give your husband a listening ear, create a relationship where he is free to tell you anything and everything. Even when he cheats, the guilt should push him to talk to you because he knows you love him and you invest your time and energy into making the marriage a fairy-tale.